Dating Coach for Women

Heal attachment wounds, build confidence and self-trust, stop repeating painful relationship patterns, and find healthy love.

This Coaching Is For You If…

  • You keep attracting emotionally unavailable or emotionally immature partners

  • You overthink and spiral over texts, dating apps, and mixed signals

  • You ignore red flags because you so badly want connection and are ready for your life partner

  • You feel anxious, consumed or emotionally drained while dating

  • You’ve experienced toxic or emotionally abusive relationships

  • You’re successful in life but struggle in love

  • You’re tired of settling, chasing, or losing yourself in relationships

  • You want healthy love but don’t know how to choose differently

Imagine Dating Without…

  • constantly questioning yourself

  • obsessing over someone’s inconsistency and mixed signals

  • chasing validation

  • ignoring red flags

  • settling for emotionally unavailable and emotionally immature partners

Instead, you’ll learn how to:

  • navigate and manage your attachment style

  • trust yourself while dating

  • identify emotionally healthy and safe partners

  • communicate clearly and confidently

  • stop abandoning yourself for connection

  • create secure, healthy relationships

Dating really doesn’t have to be this hard…

Most dating coaches…

  • teach arbitrary rules

  • teach texting tactics that aren’t necessarily aligned with one’s personal values and needs

  • teach “feminine energy”

  • teach surface-level confidence

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I help women…

  • Understand and identify underlying attachment wounds

  • Identify and challenge deep-rooted, negative core beliefs

  • Stop trauma bonding

  • Identify emotionally unsafe dynamics and behaviors

  • Clarify their dating goals and intentions that reflects who they are and what they really want

  • Craft an authentic and engaging dating profile

  • Boost confidence and build self-worth

  • Master assertiveness and setting healthy boundaries

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Why I do this work

For years, I dated like a complete maniac. I dated hard and from a place of desperation (not intention). I found myself attracted to emotionally unavailable and immature men. I chased, I spiraled, I obsessed, I cried. I was consumed and constantly found myself in dynamics that left me anxious and questioning my worth.

I know what it’s like to want love deeply while continuing to choose relationships that are harmful and reinforce your biggest insecurities.

That’s why I am passionate about this work. I take a holistic approach to coaching with the goal of helping women understand the deeper attachment patterns, trauma responses, and emotional wounds that continue to keep them stuck — so they can stop repeating painful cycles and find healthy and fulfilling relationships.

Leah Aguirre providing trauma-informed relationship coaching to help clients heal from narcissistic abuse

Book Your Discovery Call Today

If you're ready to take the first step toward healing, I invite you to reach out for a free discovery call. This no-obligation conversation is a great opportunity to learn more about how I can support you, ask any questions you may have, and see if we're a good fit for working together. Taking the first step can be daunting, but you're not alone—I'm here to help guide you on your journey to healing and growth.

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